Collections at a Funeral Service It can be difficult to know how to pay respects to a loved one, but a meaningful and lasting way is by asking friends and family to donate to our charity. The easiest way to do so is by setting up an online tribute fund and sharing the page with those who might wish to donate. Setting up a tribute fund is a good way to involve family overseas who may not be able to attend the funeral. Ask for donations at a funeral or memorial service We can provide ‘give in memory’ envelopes to collect donations at a funeral or memorial event. Family and friends can donate by cash or cheque. If you would like us to send you some out ahead of the event, just get in touch. Read Sarah's story who collected donations in memory of her Grandmother, Margaret.